In Memoriam

We have been notified of the recent deaths of the following Westridge alumnae. If you know of someone who has recently died, please contact the Alumnae Office at 626.799.1153, ext. 273. We will alert others in the Westridge community of the news.


1930
Elizabeth Parker Kase
Reprinted from the Pasadena Star-News

Elizabeth Parker Kase, born June 6, 1913, in Pasadena, California, died December 4, 2008, at Casa Dorinda, Montecito, California, age 95.

The daughter of Elizabeth Stafford and Edward Parker, Elizabeth (Betty) spent her first three years in Pasadena. In 1917, Betty's sister Suzanne (Dulce) was born, and the Parkers moved to Phoenix, Arizona. The United States was at war, and cotton was a vital component. Edward Parker had been commissioned by the Goodyear Tire and Rubber Co. to manage the cotton ranches surrounding Phoenix.

In 1922, the Parkers returned to Pasadena for good where Betty attended Polytechnic School and graduated from Westridge School in 1930. Betty studied art at Mills College for two years and transferred to UCLA, graduating with a BA in Art in 1934.

Betty met her future husband, Thomas Mellon Evans of Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, during a trip to Europe in 1931, and they were married at Pasadena's All Saints Episcopal Church in 1935. They spent their married life in Pittsburgh. After her divorce in 1952, Betty moved to Lake Forest, Illinois, where she met Charles Kase. They were married in Pasadena in 1961. In 1963, the Kases left Lake Forest for Pasadena. In 1968, the Kases bought a weekend home in Montecito, moving there permanently in 1989.

Creativity was at the center of Betty's life. Her artistic career was legendary, and her paintings hang in private collections throughout the country. An award-winning painter , Betty worked in ink, watercolor, oil, and collage, and her subject matter ranged from portraiture to pure abstraction. Betty's paintings were highly personal testimonies to a rich and varied life. In addition to being an artist, Betty was a talented poet and memoirist. Her remarkable needlework designs sprang from her mind's eye directly onto the canvas. Betty reflected the world around her with love, careful observation, and a delightful sense of humor. Her creations were personal, accessible, symbolic, and often playful, and they expressed the pulse of their - and her - time and place.

Betty is survived by her three sons: Thomas Mellon Evans, Jr., of Grafton, Vermont and Wilson, Wyoming; Edward Parker Evans of New York City and Casanova, Virginia; Robert Sheldon Evans of Greenwich, Connecticut; four grandchildren: Thomas Evans III of Sudbury, Massachusetts; Mark Evans of Deep River, Connecticut, Ashley MacDonald of Sausalito, California, Jonathan Evans of St. Louis, Missouri; nephew James Odriozola of Newport Beach and Aptos, California; nieces Julia Pizzinat and Victoria Dillingham of Santa Barbara, California; as well as three great grandchildren and many great nieces and great nephews.

Betty was a longtime member of Pasadena's Valley Hunt Club, as well as Birnam Woodand the Valley Club of Montecito, and Colonial Dames of America.


1941
Kathryn McTaggart Carr died November 22, 2008.
Reprinted from the Pasadena Star-News

Kathryn McTaggart Carr, age 85, died November 2, 2008 after a long illness. Born in Normal, Illinois, she came to Pasadena at the age of two, residing here for 28 years, then 15 years in Altadena, before moving back to the Lower Hastings Ranch area of Pasadena for 18 more years. She attended McKinley Elementary School, Westridge School, and is a graduate of Occidental College.

Her early work years were at North American Aviation, in the investment department of Security Pacific National Bank, and as a service representative in the Pasadena office of Pacific Telephone Company. While her children were in school, she became an elementary teacher at St. Marks Episcopal School in Altadena, and then in the Pasadena Public Schools, and became a reading specialist teacher. She taught Sunday School at the Pasadena Presbyterian Church where she and her family were members.

She greatly enjoyed her tennis as a member of the Pasadena Racquet Club. She and family were good skiers and went to many of the western ski resorts, and she had one ski trip to Zermatt, Switzerland. The family moved to Encinitas in 1986 as they enjoyed the beach life. She played on the Lomas Santa Fe Country Club ladies tennis teams which won county club championships and participated in the state finals. As a golfer, she had the added pleasure of achieving a Hole-In-One. Retirement years included many travel trips.

She survived by her husband, Frederick J. Carr Jr., three sons, Dr. Frederick J. Carr III of Manhattan Beach, Dr. Kenneth W. Carr of Escondido, and Thomas A. Carr, Ph.D. Economist & Environmental Lawyer of Boulder, Colorado, by her brother, Jack McTaggart, of Williams, Minnesota, and by three grandchildren, Michael, of Newport Beach, and Kristin and Mathew, both of Encinitas.

1944
Nancy Keith Tenaglia died on March 10, 2009.
Nancy is the mother of 
Maria Tenaglia Watson '77, Sarah Tenaglia Taverner '76, and Anne Tenaglia Denn '75.

Reprinted from the March 13, 2009 edition of
the Los Angeles Times:

Nancy Keith Tenaglia, age 83, died at her home in Pasadena on March 10, 2009.

The only child of Louise Carter Hill and Kenyon Arthur Keith, she attended Westridge School, Sweet Briar College, and graduated from Scripps College in Claremont.

She met her husband Henry Tenaglia on a blind date and they were married for 50 years. Nancy was an accomplished architect and interior designer. She designed and built many homes in the beachside community of St. Malo in Oceanside, California which was founded by her mother and father in 1926. A lifetime board member of the St. Malo Association, she was also chairman of the architectural committee. Nancy was an avid gardener, loved travel, art and antiques. She will always be remembered for her gracious manner, intelligence and kind nature.

She was the loving mother of five children, John, Annie, Sarah, Maria, and Louisa, and six grandchildren, Cassandra, Melinda, Chris, Mac, Olivia, and Kenyon.

Services will be held on Friday, March 20th at 10:30 am at St. Andrew's Church, 311 N. Raymond Ave. in Pasadena.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in her honor to the Saint Andrew's Catholic Church Restoration Fund, or the local chapter of the Alzheimer's Association located at 5900 Wilshire Blvd. #1100 Los Angeles, CA 90036.


1947
Rachel Morgan Behnke
Reprinted from the
Honolulu Star Bulletin

Rachel Morgan Behnke, 79, of Ha'iku, Maui, died Jan. 5, 2009. Born in New York City. Botanist for Cal Tech University. Survived by husband, John Jr.; daughters, Mary Burns, Rachel Darman and Elizabeth; sons, John and Thomas; five grandchildren. Service 10 a.m. Saturday at St. John's Episcopal Church, Kula, Maui; burial to follow at the church cemetery. Aloha attire. Donations to Hospice Maui, 400 Mahalani St., Wailuku, HI 96793. Arrangements by Ballard Family Mortuary.


Elise Mudd Marvin
Reprinted from the Pasadena Star-News

Elise Mudd Marvin passed away at her home in Pasadena on Jan. 13, 2009. Elise is the mother of Darian Dragge '69 and Wendel Bruss '70.

Born on Valentine's Day 1929, Elise Mudd Marvin spent her life inspiring creativity, generosity and adventure in her family and friends. A Pasadena resident, Marvin is remembered by her daughters as one of the most adventurous and unpretentious women they were blessed to know.

"Mom had a sophistication about her, probably due to her upbringing, but she was also incredibly natural," said daughter Darian Dragge. "She gave to everyone as much as she got."

The daughter of Dr. Seeley Greenleaf Mudd, a former Dean of Medicine at University of Southern California, and granddaughter of Colonel Seeley Wintersmith Mudd, who founded the University of Southern California's Mudd Hall of Philosophy, Marvin was encouraged in the arts and education. Her uncle, Harvey Seeley Mudd, founded Harvey Mudd College in Claremont, Calif.

It is no suprise then that while attending college on the East Coast Marvin met her husband, Murray Sands Marvin. The couple returned West to make Pasadena their home.

Throughout her eighty years, Marvin was actively involved in local philanthropic circles. Although the list of organizations and programs Marvin donated to is long and distinguished, her style of giving was quiet and gracious. She never talked about the extent of her philanthropy, she would never brag about it, said her daughters.

An avid horticulturalist, Marvin was committed to the Garden Club in Pasadena where she won numerous awards for her flower arranging, said her daughters. As an artist and, according to her family, an encourager of imagination Marvin also gave her time to the Art Center College in Pasadena.

Marvin is remembered by her family as a woman who was just as comfortable wearing a ballgown to a black tie event as she was riding on the back of a camel. They will never forget her devotion, her zest for the adventures of life and her generosity of spirit.

"She was very interested in everything and exceedingly devoted to her family," said daughter Wendel Bruss.

Marvin passed away Jan. 13. In addition to her two daughters, she is survived by sons Murray Sands Marvin Jr. and Guru Amrit Khalsa, six grandchildren and three great grandchildren.

A memorial service for Elise Mudd Marvin will be held at 10:30 a.m. Feb. 20 All Saints Church, Pasadena. In lieu of flowers the family requests memorials be made to The Elise Mudd Marvin Scholarship Fund at Harvey Mudd College. Contact Maya Chalich (909) 607-0899.


1948
Elvena M. Green
From classmate Marie Muirhead Escher '48: "Elvena and I have been friends since we were 10 years old. We graduated from Westridge School in 1948 and Mills College in Oakland in 1952. She was the maid of honor at my wedding in Pasadena in 1957. In her later years, she was an avid bridge player and spent her time playing in tournaments."


1953
Joan Howard Sammis
Reprinted from the Los Angeles Times

Joan Howard Sammis died on November 25, 2008 after a valiant nine month battle with pancreatic cancer.

She was born on May 7, 1935 in Pasadena, CA to Nelson and Betty Howard and lived an idyllic childhood in Pasadena, Houston, Texas and Watertown, Connecticut while her father was in the Navy in the Aleutian Islands during WWII.

She and her sister Natalie (Class of 1950) attended Westridge School in Pasadena from kindergarten through high school and she met her husband, Lee Sammis, at Cal Berkeley, where she was a member of Kappa Kappa Gamma. Joan and Lee moved down to Newport Beach in 1962 and raised their four daughters there. Joan began playing tennis in grade school and was a member of the tennis team in high school, winning the Ojai tournament in 1952. She loved tennis and continued to play two to three times a week until just recently.

She was a very active member of the community, heading up many boards over the years, including the Newport Harbor Service League which became the Junior League, Planned Parenthood, Newport Harbor High School PTA, American Field Service, Children's Home Society, Adoption Guild, Angelitos de Oro, and the Decorative Arts Society. She believed in volunteerism and had trouble saying no when someone asked her to contribute her time. But her family always came first!

Joan and Lee were avid boaters and cherished their time on their Hatteras, the Shazam, sharing it with countless friends and family. Catalina holds many memories as does the Caribbean, Mexico, Snowmass, Mammoth and Alisal Ranch. They were both Hawaiiophiles and spent many wonderful weeks there throughout the years. She loved to travel, have breakfast with her friends, Almond Roca, all animals, Smoke Tree Ranch, Napili Kai, Peppermint ice cream, gardening, watching her grandchildren compete in the Junior Lifeguard's Monster Mile, Mai Tais, Hawaiian music, good books, the Lakers, sailor's wools, Dad's donuts on Balboa Island, and her family.

She went to Wimbledon and on an African safari with daughter Annie and the Orient with daughter Diana. She is survived by her mother Elizabeth Buckingham Howard of Santa Barbara, sister Natalie Anne Howard of Los Angeles, her husband Lee Chapin Sammis of Newport Beach, her daughters Anne Elizabeth Sammis, Caroline Howard Sammis, Virginia Lee Sammis, and Diana Buckingham Sammis Brookes, son-in-law Robert Jordan Brookes, Jr. and beloved granddaughters Chelsea Lee Anne Beck, Savannah Julia Beck, Cassidy Caroline Gayner, Joanna Buckingham Brookes, Christina Valentine Brookes, Michelle DeForest Brookes and Alena Lucia Arrigo, her grandson Sammis Nelson Gayner, who is a United States Marine stationed in Iraq, as well as nieces, nephews, and hundreds of great friends who will miss her profoundly.

Joan Sammis was one of the traditional great ladies. She had no adversaries. She was as well-loved as any person can be in this life. It is inconceivable that she will not be here to see her great-grandchildren, but her kindness, love, strength, class and style will be an example to which we aspire. Her favorite saying to her children and grandchildren every time they walked out the door will be passed down through the generations - "Remember who you are and what you represent."

We will never forget you Jou Jou! You were an extraordinary woman and a tough act to follow.

1954
Sally McLaren Evans
Reprinted from the Malibu Times

Sally McLaren Evans of Sea Lane Drive in Malibu, died June 25, 2009, after an extended fight with cancer. Her sister is Ann McLaren Gregory '56.

Sally was born in 1936 in Pasadena, the daughter of John McLaren of Chicago, Illinois, and Margaret Huntington of San Marino, California. Her mother was a 1926 graduate of Westridge.

She was the fourth generation of her family to live in San Marino and attended middle and high schools at Polytechnic and Westridge. She attended college at Smith and University of California at Berkeley and graduated from UC Berkeley in 1957. After college, she worked for the US government in post-war Tokyo for several years before returning to California in 1965 where she met and married Sanford Evans Jr. (Sandy) of Malibu, a physicist working on the US Space Program. They have resided in Malibu ever since.

Sally is survived by her husband and their three children: Lisa Stefke of Berkeley, California; Sanford Evans III (Ford) of Corvallis, Oregon and Carol Pew of Washington DC and also by their three grandchildren: Mia Evans, Ben Pew and Jack Pew. In addition to her sister, she leaves behind a brother, John McLaren of Portland Oregon, and her loving step children, Ann Bradley Evans and William Park Evans.

The fact that Sally’s fight was lost even though aided by the best cancer treatment, clearly shows how much more research is needed. She would encourage all of her many friends to contribute to an area of cancer research of their choice.


1956
Anne Douglas Ruedas
Anne Douglas Ruedas died on March 25, 2009 at her home in Whittier, CA. Born June 7, 1938 in Salt Lake City, Anne was 70 years old. Anne worked as a Handicap Home Supervisor for Development Mentally Handicapped Company for 23 years.

She leaves behind her husband, Robert Ruedas, daughters Roberta Perez, Phyllis Franklin, and Charlene Timmermyer.


Molly Sturges Tuthill
Molly Sturges Tuthill died April 18, 2009 at her Menlo Park home of breast cancer, with which she had lived for 21 years. At her request, no services will be held. Her sister is Ann Deyo '62.

In addition to her sister, Molly is survived by her brother David Sturges; nephew and niece Scott and Lisa Deyo; stepchildren Mark Tuthill, Cynthia Tuthill, and Kathryn Thome; and three grandchildren. Her husband of 27 years, Robert Tuthill, died in 2007.

Memorial gifts may be made to Pathways Hospice, 585 North Mary Ave., Sunnyvale, CA 94085, or Breast Cancer Connections, 390 Cambridge Ave., Palo Alto, CA 94306.


1963
Jill Zimmerman
Reported from Class Representative Lynne Saito

Jill died on January 1, 2009 from cancer. Jill leaves a daughter, Krista. At her 40th Reunion, Jill spoke of enjoying the opportunity to travel with Krista. Notes from the 40th Reunion wirtten in 2003 are below:

"Jill has worked in advertising sales, career placement, and retired a few years ago from the financial business. She has lived in Corona del Mar for more than 20 years where she raised her daughter, Krista. Jill now considers herself bicoastal as she spends time both in California as well as New York where she bought an apartment in Manhattan. She enjoys the best of both worlds.

"Krista is now out on her own and owns a home in Long Beach, not too far away. Mom and daughter like to take a major trip together every year. Last year they explored China, and this year they adventured in Africa. Jill enjoys travel and when in New York City, she takes trips with a friend from Puerto Rico to visit that country."

Those of us at our 40th would remember Jill as spirited and energetic, as she was when a classmate at Westridge. She also baked the most delicious cheese cake for our dessert. We surely have many fond memories and will miss her.


1970
Priscilla Gentry Beckman died August 2, 2008.
Published in the South Bend Tribune.

Priscilla Jo Beckman, 55, died August 2, 2008 in her home. Survivors include her husband, Robert; a daughter, Bethany (Jeremy) Beckman of Michigan City; a son, Kevin Beckman of Michigan City; a brother, Perry Gentry of Nyack, NY; a granddaughter, Jaden Beckman; a niece, Lydia Gentry; and a nephew, Christopher Beckman.

2004
Silpa Yetur died Tuesday, March 10, 2009.

Classmate Sarah Bruning has reported that after a three-year battle with Hodgkin's Lymphoma, Silpa '04 died Tuesday, March 10. She was surrounded by her mother, father, and sister, Pallavi '02.

The memorial service was held on Sunday, March 15 at 11 a.m. in the Skyrose Chapel at Rose Hills Memorial Park, 3888 Workman Mill Rd., Whittier, CA.


Westridge Faculty

Reeves, Dee Harmon died February 18, 2009.
Reprinted from the
Los Angeles Times

Dee Harmon Reeves passed away after a four year battle with ovarian cancer. She was 67 years old and born in Troy, NY the daughter of Irving and Trina Shell, both from New Jersey. She grew up in Elmsford, NY, graduated from Vassar College and later received her master's from Teachers' College, Columbia University.

She spent her entire professional career as a math teacher. She began teaching at Methodist Boys High in Lagos, Nigeria as an early member of the Peace Corps, and also taught at Riverdale School in the Bronx, at Greenfield Community College in Massachusetts, and locally the Marlborough School in Los Angeles and Westridge School in Pasadena.

Dee Harmon created a parallel career in mathematics education which she continued after retiring from high school teaching in 2005. She was a frequent presenter at mathematics teaching conferences, on the board of LACTMA, and leader of numerous teacher preparation courses at several local school districts under the auspices of UCLA Math Center X. While undergoing treatment, she became an editor of a revolutionary program for students struggling to prepare for algebra written by the UCLA Math Content Programs for Teachers and Students and recently adopted by the State of California.

Dee Harmon was a wonderful cook and gracious host, who enjoyed reading, tennis, and producing a constant stream of knitted clothing and hand-made quilts for the children of her family and her friends. Her sense of color and style, evident in her clothing creations, the decor of her home and her always outfit-matching shoes, was honed by selling women's shoes as part of the family business starting at age 12. She was a life member of the Sierra Club and led canoe trips in the Maine wilderness as part of the Club's Outing program.

She is survived by Robert, her husband of nearly forty years, her children Katherine and Daniel, her granddaughter Margaret, her sister Dana and many cousins in her close-knit family.

A memorial gathering of her family and friends will be held at her home on Saturday, February 28.

If you wish to make a contribution in Dee Harmon's memory, a donation to the American Cancer Society would be appropriate and appreciated. Ovarian is third most prevalent among woman's cancers, kills twice as many of its victims as the next most virulent, and receives a fraction of the funding needed to fight it successfully.